Church-goers, how did you first know that your particular congregation was the right one for you?

I started attending a Unitarian Universalist church not too long ago. I love their acceptance and tolerance of people that belong to all different religions including Jews, Christians, Buddhists, Wiccans, atheists, agnostics, humanists, etc. They teach you to be kind and helpful towards all people and talk about a lot of social issues such as phobia and racism. They also don't brainwash you or push any dogma on you. They allow you to think for yourself and encourage open-mindedness. They want you to follow your own path and do what you think is right. It's a lovely church and we sing many beautiful hymns :) I feel spiritually refreshed and pure when the service is over.